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Feb 1, 2006 18:55:49 GMT -5
Post by KG on Feb 1, 2006 18:55:49 GMT -5
We've all been there, or at least most of us. Like you said the most frustrating thing for those of us who do have abilities is that we knew it all along, yet we stand by, trying to pretend, we don't. We try to change things using the knowledge that we have. We try to win him back before he ever leaves, and yet sometimes we just can't.
My best advice. Appear to trust everyone, but trust no one implicitly, not ever. Always have a back up plan, never leave yourself open to a knife in the back even from the most beloved. That won't keep you from being hurt entirely as far as your feelings go though. IT still hurts, but at least protect yourself in other ways.
There are few people you can trust to watch your back... and if your life depends on something, then do it yourself. If something isn't crucial, then let it be a test. Test your people, but never let them know they are being tested. Try them and see if they are trustworthy before you ever let them into your inner circle.
Also... everybody lies. Some people are theives. Most people are cowards, and cowards are always trators. If you figure out which ones are which, and you can at least reduce your risk of being dissapointed.
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Feb 1, 2006 23:43:07 GMT -5
Post by stonerwolf on Feb 1, 2006 23:43:07 GMT -5
those are some strong words, Chaos, and i hope that your wounds heal swiftly it's hard to deal with life in general, and when things like this happen, when everything just goes wrong, that's when you gotta be your strongest. it's never easy, and every generation just makes it even harder, but you gotta remember, you cant give up, you'll come back to learn your lessons again anyways, so you might as well keep your head up, and take life head on. it's better to die on your feet than live on your knees.
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Feb 6, 2006 17:29:40 GMT -5
Post by nevar on Feb 6, 2006 17:29:40 GMT -5
In time, anything can be healed, but if this person is as bad as you say he is, perhaps you should stay away from him or her. Is it the same one you wrote the letter to? If so, my advice then is to perhaps talk to him or her and make them realize how bad off you are. If they're willing to change, let them.
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Feb 7, 2006 11:58:25 GMT -5
Post by nevar on Feb 7, 2006 11:58:25 GMT -5
I do? I've only recently arrived and all I'm here to do is help, learn and perhaps even teach. I do not reaqlly know anyone here, but your situation seems to warrent my helping.
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