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Post by Kata Samoes on Dec 29, 2006 17:43:33 GMT -5
Emo.
Very, very emo.
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Post by stonerwolf on Dec 29, 2006 23:46:50 GMT -5
keep the past in the past, Kata, and make room for the changes that make the future.
give her a chance huh?
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Post by stonerwolf on Dec 29, 2006 23:51:27 GMT -5
geeze kata, petty much?
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Post by Kata Samoes on Dec 30, 2006 0:07:00 GMT -5
Nay, honest. If the past follows to the present with no change, and stacks of facades and lies..
The past cannot lie, as it lives.
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Post by stonerwolf on Dec 30, 2006 0:23:30 GMT -5
geeze, kata, what did she do anyways? why is she beyond redeeming herself?
get stuck in the past and the future will never change, Kata. if the past sucks, and you let that eat at you, your future will certainly suck too.
you have to give the future a chance, a chance to change for the better, instead of insisting that it is purely defined by the past.
the past is not the present, it is only just the events leading up to it, the present is a time for change and improvement.
Do not deny her a chance for a better future.
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Post by Kata Samoes on Dec 30, 2006 0:32:04 GMT -5
I am not denying her, I am forcing her to face the problems that LIVE in the present from the past. More-so with issues that are also in the present, which may be caused by events from the past.
The past lives in the present, and that is a problem, don't you think? She did something in the past, and she still is.
Read my post again, I mean what I say. I have no deeper meaning to my words. As I said, stoner, I am only honest.
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Post by stonerwolf on Dec 30, 2006 0:53:13 GMT -5
passing judgment, accusations, name calling, this is honesty? this is trolling. if you wanted to give her a chance, you would work with her instead of against her. YOU might not believe you are doing it, but it is apparent to me, and apparently it is to her too, for all i see is you accusing her of being the same person through and through, not even trying to help her overcome these supposed problems that accuse her of. why are you so certain she has not changed, or is "thick minded"? you can cast accusations all you want, but i would appreciate some proof that there is a problem, the particular problem you addressed. if Una has a problem, it is hers to figure out, and by telling her she is immature, thick headed, and emo, you are only giving her more problems, and none the solutions. try to help her out, or just leave her be. dont insult people if you want to help them... <"idiot" omitted> but seriously, you arent helping her. try.
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Post by Kata Samoes on Dec 30, 2006 1:02:45 GMT -5
While I see and understand your point of view...
No.
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Post by dania on Dec 30, 2006 1:04:12 GMT -5
Una is *currently* displaying the same behavior she has in the past. Like, right now. So she isn't trying to change.
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Post by stonerwolf on Dec 30, 2006 1:06:01 GMT -5
well if you arent going to try to help her out, i suggest you dont try to hold her back either.
i only ask for the bennifit of the doubt on her behalf.
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Post by dania on Dec 30, 2006 1:14:09 GMT -5
Why? Because she continues to do the same extremely harmful bullc**key that she's been doing for years.
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Post by stonerwolf on Dec 30, 2006 1:23:22 GMT -5
A. prove it b). what harmful stuff? and 3, how do you know? how do you know it is harmful, HOW IS it harmful?
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Post by Kata Samoes on Dec 30, 2006 1:23:26 GMT -5
Ooh yes, don't hold her back from lying and creating drama behind others' backs.
Nah.
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Post by Kata Samoes on Dec 30, 2006 1:24:41 GMT -5
You're quite the thick mind.
Have you been speaking to her? Been making herself seem so innocent? Hm??
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Post by stonerwolf on Dec 30, 2006 1:35:12 GMT -5
just because you cant look past your preconcieved ideas of other people doesnt mean i cant look past your preconcieved ideas.
i always have given her a chance, and i have never seen any problems with her conduct. she is not a lot different than i, she has had her share of problems, but hse never gave up hope that she could find solace, and neither have i.
what has she done to deserve this kind of treatment? what has she done that puts her beyond your forgiveness, and why is it THIS important to you, so important that you cannot give her the bennifit of the doubt and try to help her.
if she falls to the same tried and true past behavior, you cant balme yourself, unless you chose to ignore her, or insult her like this; you are only making her problem that much worse, you are a part of the problem, not the solution.
let's see if you cant turn that around and be a little more positive toward her.
help her out, what's the worst that could happen? your ego gets a bruise? she manages to get worse in her condition? well honnestly, that is her problem and not yours, so long as you treat her respectfully, and dont dwell on your past perceptions of her.
you dont know her, this is the first time you ever met her; give her a chance.
THIS is probably why she didnt come back under her old screen name, she didnt want her past to be forced on the present.
oh, and by the way, how can i be the thick mind when you cant even answer my 3 simple questions?
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